You keep repeating the same mistakes in love?
It is not your fault. It’s your subconscious patterns ruining your love life.
Discover Your Hidden Love Blocks With This 2-minute Quiz
Rewire Your Love Life in Weeks—Not Years
The R.E.S.E.T Method™ Heals the Root Cause of Negative Emotional Patterns
So You Stop Repeating What ‘Feels Familiar’ (Even When It Hurts)
‘Why do I keep going back to my ex?’
‘We keep having the same arguments, over and over.’
‘I’m exhausted from overgiving—but still feeling not enough.’
If you nodded to any of these, your nervous system is stuck replaying old survival codes.
The truth? Your mind isn’t broken—it’s brilliantly protecting you.
Those ‘patterns’? They’re subconscious shields from past emotional wounds.
But now, they’re blocking the love you crave.
Want to learn more?
How R.E.S.E.T Rewires Your Brain
The R.E.S.E.T Method™ doesn’t just ‘talk’ about change—it reprograms your emotional blueprint using:
- Clinical Hypnotherapy to rewrite attachment loops at the source: that is in the subconscious
- Somatic Release to dissolve and release trapped emotions caught up in your cells (the ones that weigh you down and cause you physical discomfort and pain)
- Advanced NLP Coaching Techniques to install new, empowering beliefs automatically, without endless affirmations
- Intuitive Tarot Guidance to reveal blind spots and point you towards healthy actions (so you stop self-sabotaging)
This unique combination of tools works to completely rewire your brain patterns in 5 simple steps so you see the change taking place literally in real time.
This isn’t ‘more therapy’—it’s a targeted upgrade for your heart.
5 weeks to Healing and Healthy Love
Recognition
Pattern Audit
Uncover the invisible beliefs running your relationships using NLP elicitation, conversational hypnosis and Tarot.
“You can’t change what you don’t recognise.”
Erasure
Subconscious Edit
Clear the core emotional wound and rewire your relational programming using hypnotherapy and NLP.
‘Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.’
Somatic Reboot
Embodied Shift
Transform how you feel in your body so confidence, calm, and boundaries become natural.
“The memory of trauma is encoded in muscle tension, and anxiety, so the body must also be involved in the healing process.”
Empowerment
Emotional Mastery
Gain relational discernment, secure communication tools, and the ability to attract and maintain healthy love.
” To heal is to touch with love that which we previously touched with fear”.
Transformation
Reset Completion
Your personalised “Relational GPS”: tools to embody your new blueprint for love that feels grounded, and deeply aligned.
“Your task is not to seek for love but to find all barriers within yourself that you have built against it”.
If you're asking yourself...
Is the R.E.S.E.T Method™ Right for Me?
This is for you if:
You want to stop revisiting the same heartbreak.
You feel emotionally numb, triggered, or disconnected.
You’ve “done the work” (therapy, books) but nothing has truly shifted.
You’re ready to create lasting change in your love life
Who Benefits most from a R.E.S.E.T?
This method is ideal for individuals who feel emotionally drained, struggle with self-sabotage, or have difficulty maintaining healthy relationships. If you’ve ever felt disconnected or overwhelmed by past traumas, this program offers a new path to emotional freedom.
Common Challenges Our Clients Face
R.E.S.E.T. works best if you are feeling trapped by past patterns, unable to move on from an ex or struggling with anxious or avoidant attachment loops. If you battle impostor syndrome and persistent feelings of inadequacy, fear of vulnerability, and a have deep desire for meaningful connections.
What Our Clients Say About the R.E.S.E.T Method™
“The R.E.S.E.T Method™ has completely transformed my approach to relationships. I feel more confident and secure in my interactions, and I’m finally able to let go of past hurts.”
Jessica L.
Hong Kong
“Before meeting Valentina, I felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and fear, going in and out of toxic relationships. Now, I have the tools to build healthy, lasting connections and could not be more grateful”
Michel B.
Paris, France
“Valentina’s method helped me uncover deep-seated beliefs that were holding me back in love. I now feel more confident, liberated and ready to embrace love fully.”
Sophia K.
Toulouse, France
“R.E.S.E.T allowed me to find the clarity and confidence I needed to transform my love life. I am now in a healthy, fulfilling relationship that grows stronger every day”.
Jason R.
Hong Kong
Why I Know This Works
I took my experience with heartbreak, healing, and transformation all the way to the TEDx stage—sharing how Embracing Unconditional Love changed my life and led me to develop R.E.S.E.T. This method isn’t theory—it’s deeply lived and tested in real relationships.
Start your R.E.S.E.T Journey today
Discover the subconscious patterns holding you back in love and your exact next steps to reset it in a 30-minutes Love Blocks Diagnostic Session
Includes a 3-Card Love Blocks Tarot Reading
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Personalised assessment on where you are in the R.E.S.E.T. path
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Evaluation, insight & strategy